Every Mans Bad Dream ©sueromeiser 2022

Bad dreams can happen and as you know we gals have dreams but guys can have bad dreams when the “Every Women’s dream” turns into a nightmare…

There you go guys you just spotted her there standing by her new shinny aircraft out on the ramp and she has that twinkle in her eye and you just sway over to her and say “HI, Honey, is that your machine?” and that gal say say” Yah, honey” with a grin on her face that say…. Trouble is about to happen.

But you throw fear into the wind and climb on board with that unknown gal who has obtained it by devious means and smiles again at you as if to say… “Na, du bist reingefallen”, and after you paid a couple of hundred dollars to tank-up to have a spin with that gal only to find out she mislead you and lets you down.

You can forget the whole thing and that gal too because as you know she is only there to use you and take all your money.

Bad dreams can happen, and my advice guys is to check the papers carefully before boarding.

Have a great day!

Feeling Down Go Shopping

That little sentence „ feeling down go shopping“ as I just read; is supposed to make us feel happier, well maybe it does at the moment we spend that cash on something that we really didn’t need and the store owner loves us for that… Great for the economy, but do I really feel better now????

I’m really not too sure about that because you need to have enough small change in your wallet to enjoy that shopping experience or else it won’t be as happy as they say…… A person is sad or upset and think to themselves “wow, I’m going shopping now to cheer myself up” …. Everything is fine until that moment comes…. Open the wallet and see only small change. I don’t feel so cheered-up now, maybe even worse because I have no money to spend. Or I check my bank account and it shows me that I seem to be lacking the amount of shopping dollars necessary … So I stay home and try to make the best of the situation. I am not happy as they say I should be because I can’t go shopping!!!!

Why must one always go shopping when feeling down isn’t there other ways to make one’s self feel better without spending cash or am I missing something here????

What happened to the days of calling up or visiting a friend and chatting with them about the problem when you feel down??? Or has that disappeared too.. We have no more friends so; there one is alone in the jungle of a shopping mall hoping to find happiness by spending some money on something that will bring a moment in their life where they aren’t thinking about their problem…. Those are such sad thoughts because it is only for a moment and that doesn’t solve the problem it just seems to cloud it over for a moment and nothing else….

Shopping isn’t what it used to be either. When I sit here and think back to my younger days… going shopping was an event and you didn’t go all the time either. It was planned and you knew how much money you could spend and after it was gone that was it, and we were happy and we didn’t use shopping as a means to solve problems or unhappiness.

Oh, there perils of shopping and what will be the next idea about what to spend money on when you are feeling down…. I’m sitting here patiently waiting to read what it will be????

Tomorrow’s the day

Tomorrow’s the day where the commercial sector promotes its products that should express love.
This can set you back a couple of dollars / Euros / pounds (which ever part of the world you live in) if you don’t watch out! What is with this day that makes it so special?

I can remember back in elementary school where we all had to exchange valentine’s cards with each other and see who could collect the most. I must say I didn’t do bad back then but I was by no means the winner nor did I want to be either. I could never understand why I had to send all my fellow class mates a card and write on back of it – love, and my name. I really didn’t love anyone in my class; sure I had friends but to be in love with them that was asking a bit much of me. The teacher saw it as a lesson for us to learn to love. I saw it as a waste of my time writing on back of all those 25 cards and the only good thing about the whole thing was is that we had a little party in class, and so we could eat cake and cookies – now that was great!!

Today as an adult this day has seemingly changed in its proportions and what one expects or wishes based on the influence of consumerism. Really now, just think about it a moment- is my partner going to like me better when I buy him a new tie ( he got one for Christmas), or aftershave ( he got that for Christmas too) – these are some of the not so expensive gifts.
Or do I have to top this to show him that I love him? According to social pressure put on me by consumer advertising I need to go out now and buy him something of substantial value (This I see as measuring love of your bank account not the person) Actually, maybe a new car or boat would do the trick, but again I feel he wouldn’t be content with such a gift. Thus putting me in a dilemma and that I don’t want!

But as I see it I am sure I will come up with something that he will like and enjoy without me going bankrupt, and at the same time showing him that my heart is in the right spot.

I am sure that everyone else knows too what they want to do or give that special person tomorrow. But always remember it‘s the thought that counts and not the price!